Ideas To Help Your Relationship

1. Plan a suprise date where you actually pick her up at the house and go.
- This gives her time to get ready on her own and it is kinda like a dating (again) role play.

2. When the other is gone for the day clean up the house so they have a nice pleasent surrounding to come home to.
- A clean and healthy home can help in getting rid of that stress.

3. Make a lunch for your significant other and put a nice note at the bottom of it to suprise them at work.
- There is nothing better then having not to worry about lunch or getting a love note while working a stressful job.

4. Arrange time for each other to talk about things going on.
- This may seem like something for the women but it is also something for the men. Talking is extremely important. It helps prevent fights and makes the other feel appreciated.

5. When fighting do your best to make up before going to bed.
- always remind the other one that you love them.
- don't be afraid to apologize.
- My wife and I can both be pretty stubborn, but we both agree not to let that effect our relationship.

6. Always.... and i mean Always resolve issues together. It is very important to talk things over and discuss issues together. Marriage is not just ONE person.

7. Learn from other married couples. My grandparents have been married for 52 years. Every chance I get I ask them questions.

8. If you feel like there is a barrier. Don't be afraid to ask for help. Even if it means seeing a counselor. Believe me if you love the person enough you should be willing to fight to break down any barriers.

9. Stay active together. Staying healthy is a big part of a positive attitude. So find something healthy and fun for you both to do.
-For example: My wife and I play tennis and run together frequently. We are not that great at tennis but we enjoy eachothers company.

10. Always be excited when the other gets home and give them a hug and an I love you. The same goes for when they leave. (except for the excited part).
-Somedays you may be tired and just want to lay down, but if you take the time to do this you will always light some flames.

If you have any questions just comment.

Good (Love) to all the married ... or about to be married couples out there.

Oh and the most important thing...

Marriage is not 50 - 50 ... It is 100 - 100.